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Have you ever opened your postbox and found an envelope or parcel clearly not meant for you? Whether it’s addressed to someone who no longer lives at your property or contains a name you’ve never heard of, the situation can be frustrating. In the UK, Royal Mail has a defined process for handling misdelivered or undeliverable items under the “Return to Sender” system.
But how exactly does it work, and what are your responsibilities as the recipient? Many people are unaware of the correct way to handle such mail, what charges may apply, or even how long Royal Mail holds on to undelivered items.
This guide walks you through everything you need to know about the “Return to Sender Royal Mail” service so you can confidently manage misdelivered mail the right way. From step-by-step instructions to FAQs, we’ve got it covered.
What Does ‘Return to Sender Royal Mail’ Mean?

When you see “Return to Sender” written on an envelope, it simply means that the item cannot be delivered and must be sent back to the original sender. Royal Mail offers this service to ensure that undelivered mail doesn’t get lost or discarded but is properly returned to its origin.
There are several reasons why an item might be marked for return:
- The recipient has moved without updating their address
- The address on the envelope is incorrect or incomplete
- The recipient refuses to accept the delivery
- The item was not collected within Royal Mail’s holding period
- Customs-related compliance issues
The returned items are sent back using the same class of service as originally used. For instance, a First-Class item will be returned using First-Class standards. In the event there’s no return address, the mail may be sent to the National Returns Centre in Belfast for further evaluation.
Royal Mail makes the return process easy and free, provided the mail hasn’t been opened. Writing “Return to Sender” or “Not known at this address” clearly on the envelope helps postal staff take the right action quickly.
When Can You Use the Return to Sender Option with Royal Mail?
There are multiple situations when you may find yourself needing to use the return to sender option. Royal Mail allows this in both personal and business settings, depending on the circumstance of the mail’s arrival.
If the item is not addressed to anyone at your residence or the addressee has moved out, you can mark the envelope as “No longer at this address” or “Not known at this address.” Drop it in a postbox without applying new postage.
You can also return mail if:
- It was delivered with incorrect or incomplete address information
- The package contains someone else’s business or employee name
- The item was meant for a previous tenant
- You receive unsolicited mail you don’t want or refuse to accept
Importantly, it’s illegal to throw away or destroy someone else’s mail, even if it’s not addressed to you. The correct action is always to return it using the methods outlined by Royal Mail.
By taking appropriate action, you help maintain the integrity of the postal service and avoid legal complications.
How Do You Return Mail to Sender in the UK?

Returning mail to sender in the UK is straightforward, but it must be done correctly for Royal Mail to process it efficiently. Here’s how you can go about it.
Step-by-step Instructions
Start by checking the envelope or parcel for any instructions. If the item clearly has a return address, your next steps are simple:
- Cross out your address if it’s incorrect
- Write “Return to Sender” or “Not known at this address” on the front
- Ensure the item is unopened
What to Write on the Envelope?
The envelope should be marked with one of the following phrases:
- “Return to Sender”
- “Not known at this address”
- “No longer lives here”
Write clearly using a black or blue pen. If the mail was sent by a company, they often have a tracking barcode which helps Royal Mail process the return faster.
Where to Drop It Off?
After labelling the mail, drop it in any Royal Mail postbox. You do not need to visit a post office or pay postage as long as the mail is unopened. Opened items require you to repackage and apply the correct postage.
In some cases, especially with parcels, you may prefer to take it to your local Royal Mail Customer Service Point for a more secure return.
Once submitted, Royal Mail handles the rest of the process and attempts to deliver the item back to its origin.
What Happens After You Mark a Letter ‘Return to Sender’?
Once you’ve marked an item as “Return to Sender” and placed it in a postbox, Royal Mail begins its process of returning it to the origin. The next steps depend on the service used and whether a return address was included.
How Royal Mail Handles Returned Items?
Royal Mail processes returns via the same delivery class originally used. If the sender used First Class or Signed For, the return will reflect that service. Items without a visible return address are redirected to the National Returns Centre in Belfast.
There, staff will attempt to identify the sender by opening the mail. If no sender is found, it may be stored or securely destroyed based on value and risk.
Delivery Timeline and Disposal (if Applicable)
The typical holding time before return is:
- 18 calendar days for undelivered items
- 21 calendar days if customs charges apply
After this, the mail is sent back to the sender. If delivery fails again, it may be held up to four months or discarded. Mail without a return address and no identifying information is generally destroyed or recycled within 30 to 60 days.
This system helps protect senders and maintain a clean postal flow.
Can You Refuse a Royal Mail Delivery?

Yes, refusing a delivery is completely within your rights. If a postman tries to deliver an item that you don’t want to accept, simply let them know at the door that you wish to refuse it. The mail will then be returned automatically.
This applies in scenarios where:
- The item is not yours or for someone who no longer lives at your address
- You ordered something and changed your mind at the door
- The parcel looks damaged or incorrect
If you’re not home, Royal Mail leaves a “Something for you” card. If it’s for a different name, you can ignore the card. The item will be returned after the holding period ends.
Refused items are typically returned free of charge, provided they haven’t been opened or altered. If you’ve opened the package, returning it might incur a postage cost.
This refusal option is especially useful for avoiding handling errors or mistaken identity deliveries.
Are There Any Charges for Using Royal Mail Return to Sender?
Returning mail through Royal Mail is usually free, but not always. The charges depend on how you return the item and whether it was opened.
| Scenario | Cost |
| Unopened mail marked “Return to Sender” | Free |
| Opened mail requiring repackaging | Postage must be paid |
| Using a different envelope or box | Postage must be paid |
| Return due to customs non-compliance | Free if unopened |
| Retailer return with prepaid label | Free (if label provided) |
| Tracked returns without using provided label | Standard postage applies |
If you opened the mail and choose to return it, you’ll need to pay postage again. Parcels using Royal Mail’s account-based services may also incur a surcharge if the item exceeds hold times.
Always check the type of service used to determine if any fees will apply. Prepaid return labels usually mean no additional cost to you.
What If the Item Was Sent by a Retailer or Online Store?

If you’ve received an item from a retailer that you need to return, Royal Mail has several options to help. Many retailers include a prepaid return label, allowing you to send the item back easily.
When returning an item to a store:
- Use the Royal Mail Track My Return tool to find the retailer
- Print the provided label or use the QR code for in-store label printing
- Drop off at a Royal Mail parcel shop, locker, or postbox
- Alternatively, book a Parcel Collect service for at-home pickup
Items can be returned using:
- Royal Mail Tracked Returns (up to £750 coverage)
- Click & Drop service if your retailer isn’t listed
- Prepaid return envelopes included by the seller
Royal Mail provides real-time tracking for returns, giving you peace of mind. These services are especially helpful for handling online orders, faulty products, or unwanted items.
How Long Does It Take for Royal Mail to Return an Item to the Sender?
The time it takes for Royal Mail to return an item depends on multiple factors, including the delivery class, type of mail, and whether customs are involved.
In general:
- Standard letters and parcels: 18 calendar days holding time
- Items with customs dues: Held for 21 days
- Special Delivery items: Held for 7 days before return
- Tracked returns: Processed once scanned at drop-off
After the holding period, Royal Mail dispatches the item back using the original service class. Most returns are completed within 2 to 10 working days depending on location.
Items returned from abroad may take longer due to that country’s postal policies. You should contact Royal Mail or the original sender if you suspect a delay.
What to Do If You Keep Receiving Someone Else’s Mail?

Repeatedly receiving someone else’s mail can be more than just an annoyance. It may indicate outdated sender records or even a risk of identity fraud if personal details are involved.
Here’s what you should do:
- Clearly write “Not known at this address” or “No longer lives here”
- Cross out your address while keeping the addressee visible
- Drop the item in any Royal Mail postbox
If the issue persists:
- Report it to Royal Mail through their help portal
- Contact the businesses or agencies sending the mail to update records
- Consider setting up a redirect service if you’re a new tenant
Do not throw away or destroy the mail. It’s a criminal offence under the Postal Services Act 2000. Taking proper action helps stop future misdeliveries and protects personal data.
Can You Track a Return to Sender Item?
While many people believe returned items vanish into a black hole, Royal Mail actually provides tracking depending on the original delivery method.
Tracked vs. untracked mail
- Tracked services like Royal Mail Tracked 24/48, Signed For, and Special Delivery allow full tracking during the return process
- Untracked letters and economy parcels cannot be traced once they are dropped in a postbox
You can enter the tracking number on Royal Mail’s website to see updates. If the mail was not tracked originally, there’s no way to follow its return status.
When to contact Royal Mail for updates?
If you haven’t received a returned item after 10 working days, it’s time to:
- Contact Royal Mail Customer Service 0345 774 0740
- Ask the sender for updates if they are the intended recipient
- Use the tracking system to verify whether the item is still en route
Remember that returns are not always instant. Patience combined with proper tracking is your best tool.
Common Royal Mail Return Scenarios and Solutions
Different situations call for different actions. Here’s a table to help you decide what to do.
| Situation | What to Do |
| Item addressed to someone unknown | Write “Not known at this address” and post it back |
| Previous tenant’s mail keeps arriving | Write “No longer lives here” and drop it in a postbox |
| You refused a delivery at the door | Delivery agent will automatically return it to sender |
| No return address on mail | Mail will go to National Returns Centre for processing |
| Item was opened | Repackage and pay postage for return |
| You’re returning to a retailer | Use provided prepaid label and track via Royal Mail service |
Always ensure you’re acting within legal and postal guidelines to avoid delays or complications.
Conclusion
The Royal Mail “Return to Sender” service is designed to be convenient, reliable, and legally compliant. Whether you’ve received mail for someone who’s moved or simply want to return a misdelivered item, following the correct process ensures that the mail reaches its rightful destination. Most returns can be handled at no cost, particularly if the mail is unopened and clearly marked.
With services like Parcel Collect, tracked returns, and prepaid labels for online purchases, Royal Mail has made the return process simpler than ever. Knowing when and how to use this service saves time, reduces errors, and ensures a more efficient postal experience for everyone involved.
FAQs
What happens if I receive mail with my address but the wrong name?
You can mark the item “Not known at this address” and drop it in a Royal Mail postbox. They’ll handle the return process from there.
Do I need to pay for returning an opened letter?
Yes, if the letter has been opened, you’ll need to repackage it and apply proper postage.
Can I refuse a package at the door from Royal Mail?
Absolutely, just let the delivery person know and they’ll take it back without any cost to you.
How long does Royal Mail hold undelivered mail?
Royal Mail typically holds items for 18 days, or 21 if customs charges apply.
What happens to mail without a return address?
These are sent to the National Returns Centre, where Royal Mail tries to find the sender.
Is it legal to throw away someone else’s mail?
No, it’s a criminal offence. Always return it via the appropriate channels.
Can I get tracking updates on returned mail?
Only if the original service was tracked. Untracked mail cannot be followed once sent back.